“Do they please you, the strawberries?”
Years of Spanish classes had prepared me for this question. The answer? Simple. “Yes, I am pleased by strawberries.”
Next question: “Is it cdsjduxkl for the sjkfldsac on the airplane?”
Meeting new people and learning a language at the same time adds another layer of confusion. I can only think about what it’s like to be a dog. At times, you’re simply noted before blending in with the furniture as others talk over you. In more exciting moments, people become fascinated with your ability to listen and speak on command—a fun trick which doesn’t quite make up for feelings of uselessness and a lack of thumbs.
This year, I’m serving as a Young Adult Volunteer (YAV) through the Presbyterian Church (USA) in Colombia. The program encourages spiritual and critical reflection through a year of service in placements across the country and around the world. For me, this work focuses on creating intentional relationships and teaching English at an after-school program for children in the northwestern part of the country.
But what does that mean?
About a month ago, I left Michigan for Stony Point Conference Center just outside New York City. Approaching the unknowability of the year ahead, explanations to friends had by then marinated in an unconvincing abstraction of my hopes and fears. Even using words now to explain the weeks since orientation seems inadequate.
YAV orientation wasn’t so much about trying to solve that question as much as give us space to struggle with it together. For a few days, sessions focused on understanding our complicity in white supremacy and racism as part of this program. At other times, we just laughed about friends that remain convinced we’re spending a year proselytizing on street corners.
For the first few weeks in Colombia, Sarah Henken guided Hannah and me through meetings with mission partners in Colombia: various schools run by the Iglesia Presbyteriana de Colombia (IPC), programs for interfaith dialogue around peace, and support for displaced farmers.
Especially while learning a new language, this can sometimes feel like an endurance activity. The mind just sort of takes in as much as it can while much of the new information falls away.
We visited Monserrate in Bogota, a Catholic church that sits 2,000 feet which attracts a lot of attention from tourists. It felt oddly comfortable to be surrounded by other people also shifting through broken Spanish at the same time.
Language understood through words alone is incomplete. This is the thought I keep returning to as I run through my Spanish-English dictionary. A thought, no matter how interesting, that’s cut in half by the hurried silence of someone trying to find the exact wording can break a conversation.
Still, I find faith with those that have ears to hear. I think about the missionary who coaches me through door-closing etiquette for Colombian taxis and the church administrator who teaches me “to cry” (llorar).
As for now, I’ve settled into my second full week at my site placement. My host family has been great in helping me adjust, and the kids here are curious to learn English. I’m finding this all to be overwhelming at times, but it’s easier knowing I’m not doing this alone.